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	<title>Comments on: When You Don&#8217;t Ask, the Answer Is Always No</title>
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		<title>By: BeautyAdvice</title>
		<link>http://outlandosmusic.com/blog/2009/09/07/when-you-dont-ask-the-answer-is-always-no/comment-page-1/#comment-501</link>
		<dc:creator>BeautyAdvice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;not asking is like leaving money lying on the table&quot;
That&#039;s so true...and it really does matter how you ask.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;not asking is like leaving money lying on the table&#8221;<br />
That&#8217;s so true&#8230;and it really does matter how you ask.</p>
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		<title>By: douglas durning</title>
		<link>http://outlandosmusic.com/blog/2009/09/07/when-you-dont-ask-the-answer-is-always-no/comment-page-1/#comment-500</link>
		<dc:creator>douglas durning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 11:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Asking for (and getting) help builds really strong bonds and realizes a community too.
Again look at the WAMC public radio model.  People then feel they are part of a larger worthwhile force. It goes from &#039;me&#039; to &#039;we&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Asking for (and getting) help builds really strong bonds and realizes a community too.<br />
Again look at the WAMC public radio model.  People then feel they are part of a larger worthwhile force. It goes from &#8216;me&#8217; to &#8216;we&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>By: april e</title>
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		<dc:creator>april e</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 14:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so true....i&#039;m an unabashedly guilty of not having the cohones to ask for fear of the askee thinking &quot;why are you asking me-nobody helped me to get where i am, go help yourself like i did&quot;

but this a a great short n sweet point! you should totally touch on that in your SXSW panel :-}</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so true&#8230;.i&#8217;m an unabashedly guilty of not having the cohones to ask for fear of the askee thinking &#8220;why are you asking me-nobody helped me to get where i am, go help yourself like i did&#8221;</p>
<p>but this a a great short n sweet point! you should totally touch on that in your SXSW panel :-}</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Bradley</title>
		<link>http://outlandosmusic.com/blog/2009/09/07/when-you-dont-ask-the-answer-is-always-no/comment-page-1/#comment-498</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate Bradley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that&#039;s where the &quot;how&quot; bit I mentioned comes in... :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that&#8217;s where the &#8220;how&#8221; bit I mentioned comes in&#8230; <img src='http://outlandosmusic.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Bruce Pollock</title>
		<link>http://outlandosmusic.com/blog/2009/09/07/when-you-dont-ask-the-answer-is-always-no/comment-page-1/#comment-497</link>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Pollock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Help!.
No, seriously--help!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Help!.<br />
No, seriously&#8211;help!!!</p>
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